A week ago, Kris Aquino-Yap in her last appearance in The Buzz once again shocked the nation when she confirmed that her marriage with James Yap was finally over.
Few minutes after her interview by Boy Abunda, social networks like Tweeter and Facebook were flooded with mixed reactions.
Most of the men I know reacted by saying how stupid James was by allowing this problem to happen however majority of the women I know loved what happened because for them it’s about time for Kris to move on.
In fairness to both of them, I think we should give them a break since we really don’t know what the story behind it. Kris was right when she said that she don’t owe us an explanation except only to her children and family.
Whatever the outcome of their relationship in the next few weeks, actually it's none of our business. We just hope that their decision will be based on truth and not because of what the fans and the showbiz community wants.
Speaking from experience, I think decisions that are made to please other people are always a big mistake. Believe me because I learned mine the hard way.
Bill Cosby of the popular TV program of the 80’s “The Cosby Show” once said that he doesn’t know the key to success however he knows the key to failure and that is when you try to please everyone.
To James and Kris and to all couples out there, always remember that relationships is always about you and your partner and not about the insignificant others.
A single's point of view: There are a lot of factors when a woman comes to a point when finally she says "Ako sumuko na." Either, with finality she falls out of love or she still is but can't stand the pain that slowly ate her up and with so much difficulty decides to move on. In this case, let us try to learn our lessons by their story. No couples were perfectly matched. Its just a matter of how they grow old and mature with all the odds. Though words have already been uttered, somehow, what's meant by God will be ones which is final and thy will be done!
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